Internet Survey
Age: 32
Sex: male
Education: Some post secondary electronics and computer courses
Amount of time a week spent on the Internet: roughly 20-25 varies due to work schedule
Current city, country: Vancouver, Canada
I use it for gaming (20 hours or so), Email (1 hour/week). I also use it for my daily newspaper and as a way to save long distance charges using voice over-net technologies.
I use the Net to keep in touch with family, friends and strangers yes. Some are on the other side of the country, many I count friends are all over the world.
I avoid general chat rooms like the plague. Usually populated by bored pre-teens whose idea of humor consists of calling people "fags" or who resort to invective when faced with an intelligent response to their lack of personality. Any chat rooms I do spend time in are usually limited to in-game chats designed to find someone to play a game with or against.
Yes I have met people online, many of whom I count among my closest friends. In fact, I hope to meet several of them this year at a yearly gathering they have so that we CAN put faces to the people we associate with on a regular basis.
Yes, I’ve met many people online with similar interests. Usually through many of the games I play. Often after gaming with someone for many months you start to become interested in the person as an individual, rather than a simple opponent.
I find the net increase the availability of some social interaction. (You can meet far more people far more quickly and determine whether they are worth talking too again in the future more rapidly than you could in person for example.) Isolation is a not a consideration. If one feels isolated, all one has to do is simply step out the door and find something to do.
Time spent on the Net is just another form of interaction. It neither adds nor subtracts from the experience. It simply facilitates it. And if one feels lonely, one should get out more. J
This is a good question. Personally no, I feel that it does not make me more accepted due to a lack physical or visual representation. However, I can see how individuals who would ‘stand out’ in a crowd could feel that way.
Typically no, I am not particular about any of those things. My main concern is with the quality of my time on the net. If I find myself bored, or the person I am interacting with does not meet my standards, I simply cease to communicate with them. It is interesting to note that I have had conversations with many 12 year olds (That’s what they claimed anyway) who could act more mature and intelligent than several people who are considerably older than they in terms of years.
My life would not be substantially different. Casual interactions would likely take place in a more public place I suppose, perhaps over a cup of coffee in a restaurant that I frequent regularly. I tend to be a bit of a homebody though, and would likely spend more time reading.
Not actively. I tend to hold an open mind on many subjects, and am blind to others just like anyone else you could point at. If a given perspective interests me than I will of course pursue further information.
‘Drive-by’ relationships can and do occur on the Net. But then they do in real life too. ‘One night stands’ are an example of this. I think the Net facilitates them more than encourages them. There is no positive or negative feedback from the Net itself. It is a medium through which people interact, nothing more. Anonymity can allow for some interesting behaviors though.
The Internet both widens and deepens my sense of community. I interact with people all over the world. Because of this interaction I have become more aware of situations in other countries. For example, often the news presented to us through more regular media like newspapers and television is subtly presented in a manor to enhance or detract from a specific point of view. The same can be said of the Net, but rarely is it professionally done. Also a bit of digging around on the Net can usually find the ‘other guys’ side of the story.
The point though is this. With the Net I can and DO talk to people in some of these ‘news situations’. This puts a ‘face’ on things. No longer are the things going on in other countries a case of ‘it’s them over there and me over here’.
Not when I can start a piece of software and talk to someone live in another country and hear sirens in the background. Or listen to his dog bark, or his kids laugh.